How to Tell a Guy You Love Him

Moving into the stage of a relationship where you express the deepest of feelings for that special guy is an exciting yet fear-tinged moment as you're not quite sure whether the feeling should be expressed at this point of time, whether or not he'll reciprocate the feeling, and whether or not this is the one for you. Telling a guy you love him for the first time can be a little easier with a gradual approach
Telling him "I love you" is an important step in building intimacy in a relationship. It's three words that weigh a lot and says a lot about your commitment to your partner. Therefore you should be absolutely positive you love your partner before you utter that sentence and also be prepared for all possible responses.

STEP
1.Think about when and where you want to tell him. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell him at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.

2.Set the mood and be romantic. Buy him a little romantic gift or something that sets a romantic tone.

3.Look at him directly, take his hand and tell him how positive you feel about him. Give him examples of things about him you really like. Be sincere.


4.Tell him how you feel being with him, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with him.

5.Follow these positive statements with telling him you love him in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."

TIPS
Be sure that you actually do love the guy before you tell him. Never say it unless you are absolutely sure.

You'll really know if you love him if you care about how his day is going, even when he's really frustrated about something and you're there for him. There are different ways to tell or show a guy you love him without it seeming superficial, letting him know that he can be himself around you and you won't become freaked out if he's grumpy (it's not you...). A guy who cares will try to earn your respect and trust, he wouldn't expect you to say "I love you" right away but after getting to know him better.

Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for his possible response if you are not sure whether he feels the same way about you. For example, if you are hoping he will say "I love you" in return, what if he doesn't? Decide whether you are ready to be that vulnerable and whether you can handle whatever he may say.

Go for it if you feel ready to take the risk. Love is risky!

Try not to drink too much. If you feel you have to drink to tell him, it conveys that you can't be yourself and tell him how you feel. If this is the case, wait until you are ready.

Never beg for his love. Love isn't like lending a pencil!

WARNING
If the guy does not share your feelings, it is not the end of the world. Saying "I love you" is a very serious thing for most men because it implies commitment. Just wait it out, without putting too much pressure on him, and hopefully he will honestly say the same back to you.

Do not tell him after you make love. Often times the endorphins from the act of love will make you feel like you are in love when you are not, in fact.







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