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The Best Way To Make Him Commit

If you're not exactly sure what kind of relationship you're in - whether it's real or Imaginary and how he truly feels about you, it's so easy to get stuck in that awful situation where he has all the power and you feel insecure and confused so much of the time.  you're finding yourself stuck in an Imaginary Relationship where he's all of a sudden talking about being "friends" or how he's "not ready for a relationship yet" and you don't know where to turn? You have been seeing this guy for few months. You go out together, go to dinner, talk everyday all day while he's at work, but, now all the sudden he says he looks at as if you were just a friend and not someone to be in a relationship with.  Here also i want to answer the question from one of comment in my article Why Men Act "Hot And Cold" She has been best friends with this guy for almost to 2 years now and they've dated on/ off. And they've been slee

How To Deal With Men

Hi girls… Pernah nggak kamu merasa bete, marah, dan kesel sama cowokmu karena kamu pikir cowokmu itu ngga mengerti perasaan kamu dan keinginan kamu terhadap dia? Pastinya semua cewek pernah merasakan hal itu dan termasuk saya sendiri, bahkan sampe membuat saya frustrating untuk menghadapi cowok, saya merasa bahwa semua cowok cowok itu bajingan, breangsek, dan nggak punya otak. Saya merasa stuck! Setelah sekian lama saya mencari jawaban mengapa semua hubungan saya ngga ada yg berhasil dan mandek ternyata jawaban nya sangat simple tapi lumayan sulit untuk di praktekan. Saya terlalu needy, merasa ngga secure, dan terlalu ketara kalo saya menginginkan komitmen. Pantasan aja setiap saya punya teman kencan, baru 3 bulan semua nya pada kabur, justru pada saat 3 bulan itulah masa masa rawan, si cowok akan melihat apakah cewek ini bagus untuk di ajak komitment atau mengambil langkah seribu untuk kabur. Sewaktu si cowok mulai menarik diri alias masuk ke dalam goa nya seperti yg di tulis d

What To Do When A Man Withdraws

Love is sometimes difficult to understand and men can quite often be complex creatures for women who love them. Almost every man, at one time or another, is going to withdraw from the woman he loves. There are some definite steps that you can take to draw him closer and to keep from pushing him further away. Relationship advice can be tough to follow and, quite often, amazingly enough, the thing you should do is the exact opposite of what you feel like doing. Relationship problems are a realilty for all of us but the following will help you know what to do when a man withdraws. First and foremost, give him space. It is natural to want to call the man you love or be near him when you think he is going through a hard time. Stop. That's right - simply stop. Men, unlike women, process their worry and anxiety differently than women. It is natural for us to think that his withdrawal is related to us and the relationship. That may be true, but not necessarily. And, even if it is, he need

How to Tell a Guy You Love Him

Moving into the stage of a relationship where you express the deepest of feelings for that special guy is an exciting yet fear-tinged moment as you're not quite sure whether the feeling should be expressed at this point of time, whether or not he'll reciprocate the feeling, and whether or not this is the one for you. Telling a guy you love him for the first time can be a little easier with a gradual approach Telling him "I love you" is an important step in building intimacy in a relationship. It's three words that weigh a lot and says a lot about your commitment to your partner. Therefore you should be absolutely positive you love your partner before you utter that sentence and also be prepared for all possible responses. STEP 1.Think about when and where you want to tell him. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell him at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniver

How to Keep a Man Interested

The first step to make a man stay interested in a woman is to stop doing the things that annoy him. All right. Do you know what's the number one thing that most women (me included) do when we feel the guy is losing interest? We try to CONVINCE him to change his mind. When a man just isn't interested, we beg, chase, plead, and do everything we can to try to change his mind. Bad idea! I tried it and it never worked. Here's the thing: when it comes to keeping a guy interested, trying to CONVINCE him or TALKING HIM INTO liking you never, never, ever works. Yes, there needs to be closeness and intimacy for a solid relationship. However, the closeness has to evolve in steps. Men get scared easily when it comes to emotions. And some women are in a hurry to share or "load" their emotions. It gives them a fake feeling of closeness. The worst thing that a woman can do is to CONVINCE a man to like her. Every time you do this, it eats away the attraction he still feels insid

Why Men Act "Hot And Cold"

Why is it so easy for other women to fall in love with a man, and for their relationships to effortlessly come together and grow... While YOU keep attracting all the men out there who are "unavailable" or who SEEM great at first, but eventually get scared and just can't go "deeper" with you? Is this "unavailable" thing really a problem so many men are carrying around that gets in the way of love? Or... Could it also be that YOU play a part in finding men who are "unavailable"? Or that you bring about that unavailable RESPONSE inside a man, a response that even the most "evolved" men have lying dormant inside them? I want to share with you what could be a new and enlightening perspective on all this.. There's an important realization all SMART and LOVING women come to at some point in their love lives. It's a "light bulb" that suddenly just turns on... and when it does you instantly g

Are Older, Successful Men Scared Of Commitment?

Hi girls,would you recognize a "good man" if you saw one? Do you frequently meet and get into relationships with men you THOUGHT were going to be right for you... Only to discover many months down the road that they're not, and it causes you a lot of pain and frustration? A man will often be on his "best behavior" the first 6 months you're dating. It's often hard to "see" him for who he really is when you're experiencing a lot of attraction and chemistry. This is why it's CRUCIAL for you to figure out early on, before you get too involved, whether or not he's MATURE ENOUGH to have a good relationship, and whether he's ready to be the kind of man you need him to be for you. Maybe this is something you've been curious about, too. You've met a man who's over 40. Let's say he's never been married. He's got a great career, is fairly successful, and has a lot going on in his life.

3 Truths About Men You Won't Believe‏

Hi Girls... If you've always wanted to know what makes a guy "feel it" for one woman and not another...Or why men cheat... why they seem to withdrawfrom emotional discussions... and what almost ALL men want from a woman... Are there certain things you believe about men and relationships that can actually be HURTING your chances at real and lasting love? Tell me if you agree with any of thesestatements about men: - Men like a challenge. They like the chase. If you're too "easy" or approachable, they'll getbored or lose interest. - Men are dominant in relationships and women therefore are unable to express themselves. - Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous. - Men would secretly love to date and sleep with different women the rest of theirlives rather than just have to stay with one serious, committed relationship. - Men just want to have fun and "freedom" and noresponsibility. Did you find yourself nodding at any of these? Do you feel